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Needing knitting project help.

October 9, 2011 by

It is nearly time to start making this baby a blanket and I’m struggling for inspiration. Fran had one made from a pattern and the other girls used it too; after her I never managed to make ones for the others, so my Nana stepped into the breach. Freddie’s I made as a sampler while […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Knitting & Sewing, Photos Tagged With: infant loss, knitted patchwork blankets, knitting a rainbow baby blanket, patchwork knitted baby blankets, pregnancy after loss, rainbow blanket for a baby

Farewell Fiver

October 3, 2011 by

On Friday morning our perhaps most beloved of all of us rabbit, died. Max went out to find him stretched peacefully out in their mini house. There was no evidence of anything wrong, he was chunky ad his eyes were clear and no obvious swellings or anything. He wasn’t particularly old, just 4 1/2 years, […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Family Life, Grief Tagged With: children and grief, grief, pet rabbit dying, pets, when pets die

19 Weeks Pregnant

September 23, 2011 by

Marmite has made it to 19 weeks and is still going strong 🙂 Yesterday my consultant and I agreed I am now half way. We have a date that should be Marmite’s birthday and a plan of sorts. The plan falls somewhere between mental health padded cell accommodation for me and the best and most […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Family Life, Pregnancy After Loss, Uncategorized Tagged With: anomaly scan, infant loss, pregnancy, pregnancy after loss, rainbow babies

To remind myself some other day.

May 5, 2011 by

I wrote this as a comment on Glow, that amazing wonderful place that has held me together over the last year. I’m copying it here to remind myself, on the days when the empty and dark feelings have me by the throat and won’t let go and when it seems that life, any amount of […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Freddie Tagged With: bereavement, grief, life after a child has died, losing a baby, loss of a baby, neonatal death

Trains…

May 4, 2011 by

The kids have been reasonably pleased with the whole “Night Mail” thing and have done some great work on it. I’ve not done photos yet but Maddy has done an amazing snippet of poem to fit into it:- “And though the country is very vast, she’ll never get lost, she’ll keep going fast. She’ll follow […]

Filed Under: Amelie, Being a Parent, Children & Grief, Family Life, Garden, History etc, Home Education, Photos, Poems Tagged With: discussing terrorism with kids, explaining war to kids, garden, growing beans, night mail, poetry, politics with kids, seedlings, simon weston, stamp collecting, studying night mail, world affairs with kids

The Gallery: April

May 4, 2011 by

As things go, the Gallery provided too many opportunities for reflection this month. Too many I couldn’t walk past: they felt like a summons. But April hasn’t been a sad month, after all, it has been a happy month, one that has helped me see how lucky I am, even if it takes a certain […]

Filed Under: Allotment, Being a Parent, Family Life, Freddie, Garden, Nature Walk, Photos, Trying to Conceive Tagged With: allotments with kids, clomid, comfort, daffodil pictures, family, friends, gardening in April, going out when you have children, magnolia trees, meeting a new baby after losing a child, releasing balloons, trying to conceive

Making something grow

April 19, 2011 by

Thanks to my many lovely friends, the garden is still looking beautiful; daffs are hanging on, tulips blooming, one magnolia is still making new blooms and the other is about to burst open. Not bad for an iPhone. It’s worth a thank you. I didn’t want to garden last year, but being sent trees and […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Creative Every Day, Family Life, Freddie, Garden, Josie, Photos, Trying to Conceive Tagged With: garden veg patch, gardening, gardening with children, growing vegetables, growing vegetables with kids, vegetables in pots

Happy Face and Button Pictures

April 12, 2011 by

Oh i could twist and turn in the mud of a good old wallow tonight. But I’ll spare you the agony; I think it would probably be gratuitous and maybe I’ll need to do it more another night. So instead, let me tell you how I spent the day with the two girls who were […]

Filed Under: Arts & Crafts, Being a Parent, Family Life, Freddie, Home Education, Josie, Maddy, Photos Tagged With: activities for 6 year olds, button craft for little ones, button crafts, button pictures, crafts with buttons, felt shape necklaces, spring cleaning, the right moment to get rid of baby stuff after a baby dies, things to do with buttons, things to do with felt shapes

Finding some local shops

March 25, 2011 by

Yesterday Max and I took one of our brief times out, time we set aside for checking up on each other and on us. As we had a morning, instead of a more normal lunch time, so we didn’t go to Fotheringhay this time; the fields were also full of fog as we set out, […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Family Life Tagged With: buying from butchers, buying from local bakers, buying locally, ethical shopping, farmers markets, local business, Oundle, shopping, shopping locally, thoughtful local shopping, using greengrocer shops

The End of All Things

March 17, 2011 by

The one that starts with things endings and ends with things beginning and covers up an awful lot of wondering “how could you?” It has been a horrible week; I’ve cried harder this week than I have all year, mostly bout things I can’t write and partly because anything stressful turns into more tears about […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Freddie, Gymnastics, Music, Sport & Dance, The Girls, Trying to Conceive, Wed Ed Group Tagged With: dancing, grief, gymnastics, infant loss, music lessons, trying to conceive

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