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The Eve of Change

September 12, 2011 by

It’s not often I delete a half written post, but I just have. I wanted to write something meaningful about the coverage of the 9/11 anniversary this weekend, but honestly I don’t have the stomach for it. Maybe I’d just end up adding to the one thing I find so difficult about our world wide […]

Filed Under: Family Life, Thinking Tagged With: 9/11, children playing to cope with trauma, growing up, motherhood

Dreams : One : Two : Three

August 21, 2011 by

We forgot to go to Freddie’s funeral. We were busy, the girls were alive and needed us and life goes on and… oh my word, it was today and we forgot. Max was okay with it; after all, it was just a procedure, he didn’t need us there, the girls needed us. It was just […]

Filed Under: Grief, Pregnancy After Loss, Thinking Tagged With: baby loss, grief, infant loss, pregnancy after infant loss, pregnancy after neonatal death

Camping it up.

August 15, 2011 by

I could start this post by saying we are confirmed campers. When I think about it though, I haven’t actually had a proper tent holiday since before I was pregnant with Freddie. I can’t even pinpoint it now. Maybe the Summer before but I think not, so probably even the summer before that. If it […]

Filed Under: Family Life, Thinking Tagged With: caravan holidays, choice of caravan insurance, family life, family time, tent holidays, travelling, WWOOFing

Dear So and So… the Annoying Research edition.

July 26, 2011 by

Be gentle with me. This is my first attempt at Dear So and So. I need to get some things off my chest. And yes, I know most of my irritation probably stems from crappy BBC reporting. Humour me. Working Mothers do no Harm to Children. Do you know how much it irritates me to […]

Filed Under: Thinking, Writing Tagged With: birth defects, bloody research, mothers who work, scientists who need to go out and get a proper job, stillbirth research on sleep position, stress in the womb

The overdue CyberMummy Part 2

July 21, 2011 by

I should have written this ages ago but it has been a funny old month and practically as soon as I came home from the blogging conference, the very last thing I had the energy to do was blog. In fact, I’ve barely opened my laptop for weeks; I can keep in touch on my […]

Filed Under: Merrily Empire, Thinking, Writing Tagged With: blogging, cybermummy11, growing up, social confidence

All a bit complicated

July 16, 2011 by

There are a lot of things in this post. Some reasons to chatter and some reasons why I haven’t been doing so much of that too. Sometimes the only way forward is to tumble it out and let anyone who wants to sift the melting pot. There is the large and the small tucked into […]

Filed Under: Family Life, Fran, Grief, Home Education, Thinking Tagged With: changes, grief, home education and then going to school

Pondering home educating nearly 10 years in.

July 8, 2011 by

It annoys me that I’m not doing a good old inspiring home ed blog any more. I do try but more and more the girls just get on and do stuff, not very visual or exciting stuff, not stuff that warrants dramatic blog posts. more and more, this blog has become about me, or just […]

Filed Under: Home Education, Thinking Tagged With: charlotte mason, home ed styles, home educating, Home Education, home education uk blog, how to home educate, montessori home education

What I thought of CyberMummy – Part One

June 27, 2011 by

I spent the weekend at a blogging conference/networking/marketing event – called CyberMummy. Despite the alarming title, it probably should assure you I have not come home made of aluminium, with my brains sucked out and vomit on my shoulder. On the other hand, I do wonder if when it was originally given it’s name, it […]

Filed Under: Thinking Tagged With: cybermummy11, rachel johnson, sophie king, what i thought about cybermummy

Admitting Small Elements of Defeat to Stay Standing

May 13, 2011 by

It??s been a rough week. The kids are all unwell and have been, in varying combinations, since last Thursday. Fran came down with another sore throat and got progressively worse all weekend; despite having a friend on sleep over, she needed all the pain killers going to keep her upright, so on Monday I took […]

Filed Under: Thinking Tagged With: anti-depressants, bereavement, child loss, clomid, coping with child loss, depression, diabetes, grief, infertility, loss, oral thrush in teens, trying to conceive

Garden & Allotment Stuff

May 2, 2011 by

This last week or so has been a flurry of visitors, visiting and being places. The bank holidays – and with them the end of April and the passing of all ‘those’ dates have flown by. I think they are not really the same for us, given in the Spring and Summer we can please […]

Filed Under: Allotment, Garden, Thinking Tagged With: container gardening, easy vegetable growing, growing garden vegetables, growing veg in pots, growing veg with kids, making trellis for climbers, memory gardens, owning an allotment, planting things to remember

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