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Watch Out… Lady Driver.

June 28, 2013 by

For a long time, surrounded by far more politically astute friends, I worried (in my spare time) about the fact that I almost totally failed to be rampant and outraged by lots of the -isms that my peers and friends knew lots about. It gnawed at me, for example, that I didn’t seem to be […]

Filed Under: Thinking Tagged With: caution lady driver, equal roles at home, everyday sexism, feminism, parents sharing job, understanding sexism

See the sun again.

April 30, 2013 by

April has come and gone. It was hard this year. Hard because it will always be hard. Hard because it fought against the Spring and the sympathetic balm of warmth and light that is normally so familiar, so sweet, so sad, did not come. Hard because there was no fug of new baby warmth and […]

Filed Under: Freddie, Grief, Thinking Tagged With: #matildamae, #remeberfreddie, baby loss, child loss, grief, infant loss, neonatal death

Why I'm quiet.

January 17, 2013 by

There are all sorts of reasons. One is I’m spending my evenings listening to the Wee Free Men books while making this. Another is I’ve been making these. Because I really want to get back to selling handmade things this year and I have masses of plans and not much time. Then there is crawling […]

Filed Under: Arts & Crafts, Being a Parent, Family Life, Garden, Home Education, Merrily Empire, Thinking Tagged With: family life, grief olympics, new craft shop, thoughts

Small pleasures.

January 2, 2013 by

I’m sat up, alone, at midnight with a Baileys and my crochet and Wee Free Men to listen to and the Christmas lights to look at. I can be grateful and sad and optimistic and regretful – simultaneously – and not mind the company of any of those thoughts. It’s as good a place to […]

Filed Under: Thinking

Normal service will resume…

October 11, 2012 by

Shortly. Possibly. Life has got rather complicated. Not only do we have children doing what is fast becoming an almost impossible combination of activities but business is heading into its busy time and 2 of our staff are moving. Gulp. Luckily we will manage, but the well oiled machine will be, erm, using different oil. […]

Filed Under: Benedict, Fimo Models, Fran, Photos, Thinking, Trips Out

Semantics. Conversation. Truths.

October 4, 2012 by

In the doctors the other day With Bene, not yet as poorly as he was today sat on the floor, an old lady asked me how many children I had. And I replied, as I always do “I have had six, he is number six”. Across the room another lady chipped in; “Six! How did […]

Filed Under: Benedict, Freddie, Grief, Thinking

A night at the MADS

October 3, 2012 by

As you probably know, I was nominated in several MAD blog awards recently. I should probably get it out of the way quickly and say I didn’t win any of my categories and am therefore not nearly inspiring enough to interest any of you further 😉 However, I did have a brilliant night and I […]

Filed Under: Thinking, Trips Out Tagged With: amazing night, insolia shoes, m&s, mad blog awards, myleene klass, per una dress, purple dress, regis uk, tots 100, velvet evening dress

Not the language post I planned to write today.

September 21, 2012 by

But you know what, this one is more important. Because when I came across this literacy set in a toy shop today, I just wanted to cry. What the hell is something like this doing in a shop, alongside keywords, sight words and literacy in the 21st century? How can it possibly be that anyone, […]

Filed Under: Thinking Tagged With: feminism, fridge msgic, gender stereotyping, literacy sets, sexism

In the end.

August 24, 2012 by

In the end, it all comes back to one simple thing. I was one person and then my world fell apart. I put it back together and it fell apart all over again when my son died. Putting it back together again, trying to pick up the reins of a life that ran away from […]

Filed Under: Benedict, Freddie, Grief, Thinking

I mind, actually.

July 25, 2012 by

I commented on a status the other day that at least reaching our thirties meant we embraced an age of being comfortable in our skin. That it was a good age to be. Despite everything that has happened, being in my thirties has been the age I have been happiest about myself. I’m fatter, plainer […]

Filed Under: Thinking Tagged With: depression, lonely in a crowd, low self estemm, low self image, post natal depression, self image

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