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This new life.

February 27, 2012 by

Ben is one month old now and the enormous stress of the early days is lifting. The relief of the changes in him after he reached term was enormous. He’s still a very snoozy, and occasionally twitchy, baby but he’s awake gradually more and more and when he is, he’s alert and lovely. In the […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict, Family Life, Freddie, Grief Tagged With: breastfeeding early babies, early baby, newborn baby, one month old

Older

February 7, 2012 by

Ben is 11 days old. He is older than his big brother. It just is not right for that to happen when he is just so small. He is so loved, so part of us and I cannot believe that 11 days after Freddie’s birth I was sat at home, with aching, empty arms and […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict, Freddie, Grief, Thinking Tagged With: child loss, grief, rainbow baby, subsequent child after infant loss, when a child dies

Breastfeeding – 6 babies, six different experiences.

February 7, 2012 by

When I was pregnant this time, I said to someone in a fairly joking fashion that I had very few new experiences left; birth by a roadside, on my bathroom floor or by forceps being three of the only obstetric things left on my to (not) do list that I could think of. I also […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Family Life, Thinking Tagged With: breast feeding for high palate, breast milk for cleft babies, breastfeeding, breastfeeding early babies, breastfeeding experiences, easy breast feeding, expressing for scbu babies, extended breastfeeding, helping sleepy babies to feed, jaundice, s

Becoming normal

February 4, 2012 by

Yesterday wasn’t brilliantly normal, as I noticed with the unerring timing of it being just as a friend arrived, that Ben had a crop of mouth ulcers on his bottom lip. I’d never seen anything like it, panicked and had to take him in to the ward to be checked, as my brain cycled through […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict, Family Life, Grief Tagged With: 37 week babies, birth after loss, feeding to clear jaundice, jaundice in young babies, mouth ulcers in babies

Baby Magic

February 1, 2012 by

If you found this as a home ed blog and are looking for posts on maths, you should probably move along for a few days. We are all loved up on babies and likely to be so for a while 😆 36 hours at home has done much to restore me. I feel like my […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict, Family Life, Freddie, Grief Tagged With: adjusting to life with a new baby after neonatal death, babies after loss, baby benedict, life at home with a new baby

Meeting the family

January 29, 2012 by

We are loving getting to know this little boy. 6th time in and our eyes are opened all over again to what a miracle it is to see a baby breathe and be whole and live. I don’t think the full reality has sunk in yet for me, but it is beginning to. I’m just […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict, Family Life Tagged With: birth after loss, bringing home a new baby, bringing home a rainbow baby, family life, introducing siblings to a new baby, new baby in the family, siblings after infant loss

We got male :)

January 27, 2012 by

Baby boy, pink, alive and in our arms 🙂 Marmite made an arrival today, having decided to show it was time to leave the premises. A very lovely c/s which turned out to be a very right decision. He’s 6lb4 and snoozing in my arms 🙂 Benedict James George.  

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict, Pregnancy After Loss Tagged With: a baby brother, baby benedict, being big sisters, birth after infant loss, new baby boy at patch of puddles, puddlechicks new baby, rainbow baby

The Puddlechicks and allergies.

January 15, 2012 by

When people list protection from allergies as one of the many benefits of breast feeding, you should not mistake my derisive snort as being one which dismisses breast feeding in general. I am a passionate breastfeeding supporter, though I have done so with mixed success. It is just that, in this particular house, my children […]

Filed Under: Amelie, Being a Parent, Family Life, Uncategorized Tagged With: asthma, cashew nut allergy pistachio allergy, eczema, lactose intolerance, milk allergy, milk intolerance, milk protein allergy, nut allergies, tree nut allergies

Christmas Cheer

December 11, 2011 by

For some reason, I’m finding Christmas more of a struggle this year than I did last year. I’m not sure why, nor is it really from the perspective of ever last element of Christmas grating on grief like a raw and rubbing wound. This Christmas has some hope in it, which most certainly helps a […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Family Life Tagged With: gift ideas for her, gifts for her, ruby wedding anniversary gifts

Unrecognisable to myself

November 22, 2011 by

I don’t know how old I was when I saw the film Philadelphia; I saw it at the cinema, with my friend who had a close family friend dying of AIDS at the time, contracted while working in Africa before anyone knew to be wary. We were teenagers. I don’t think I’ve seen the film […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Family Life, Freddie, Grief, Thinking Tagged With: acceptance after baby loss, glow in the woods, grief, infant loss, life after infant loss, loss

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