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Right Where I Am: 2 years, 2 months.

May 26, 2012 by

When I joined in with this project last year, I was tottering on the brink of utter despair. I wrote my entry on the cusp month between the end of Freddie’s time and the beginning of Ben’s time. That single month that was left before I found out I was pregnant again. It was feeling […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict, Freddie, Grief, Uncategorized Tagged With: Grief Project, infant loss, life after losing a child, moving on, rainbow baby, Right Where I am, Still Life with Circles, subsequent baby

Yellow Bird; that mummy and baby thing. And home ed.

May 25, 2012 by

I’ve got a 4 month post coming because I think it is time to stop counting in weeks. But one last time. He’s 17 weeks and he is so big and so changed and so different and utterly adorable. In the rare moments when he does stop feeding, what he likes more than anything is […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict, Home Education Tagged With: easy home ed, enjoying the moment, haitian song, yellow bird, yellow bird song

The Smacking Thing

April 29, 2012 by

I guess there is every chance that by the end of this post you’ll hate me. Or worse, be deeply disappointed in me. Or angry with me. But there is something I would like to say because I’m a little tired of sanctimonious parenting posts preaching perfection at me. I’ve been meaning to say it […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent Tagged With: bringing up children, discipline, growth in parenting, parenting, smacking

It's Tricky

April 16, 2012 by

Two nights ago Ben had his first night in a crib, which as you can see from the rather pants picture that I faffed with in an effort to distract myself, is a close to the side of my bed as it can be. I’d say it is as close to my side of the […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict Tagged With: co-sleeping, fear of infant death, moving baby to a crib, new baby after neonatal death, newborn baby

11 weeks old

April 13, 2012 by

So much has changed. Again 🙂 He smiles, cheekily and engagingly, he visits smiles on us when we please him. He waves his arms and is thrilled when they connect with things, kicks his legs to get rid of blankets. I swear he wees at us on purpose and is charmed by the cries of […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict Tagged With: 11 week old baby, baby development, life after the death of a baby, new baby, new baby after infant loss

Cousins

April 8, 2012 by

We are having a lovely few days. Comparing this year to last year is something I am trying hard not to do, because it seems unkind or disrespectful to be happy this year. But we are. Now is not the time to dwell or try to make sense of how unreal the last two years […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict, Family Life, Freddie Tagged With: family life, getting together with family, infant loss, large family

I think it's kind of funny & I think it's kind of sad.

April 2, 2012 by

Dear Freddie, Today you should be two. We might have had a party, met up with your cousins and played chubby limbed boy games in the sun that shone. We might have driven trains on wooden track handed down from your sisters or bought you a new ride on car like the one Josie had […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Freddie, Letters to Freddie Tagged With: infant loss memorial, letter to freddie on his second birthday, letters to a dead child, life after baby loss

Mother's Day

March 18, 2012 by

It’s really not about expensive gifts. Handmade cards, a present made with love, a specially laid table with menus and croissants for breakfast. Mother’s Day came and went easier this year, though it’s best not looked too hard at. Easiest to think not of what I have or don’t have but of what being a […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent Tagged With: mother's day, mother's day after infant loss, real mother's day

A Weekend in 4×4 Photos

March 13, 2012 by

We had a lovely weekend. When we got to the end of of it I was able to send this tweet:- “Crafting done, TKD belt earned, rugby played, PDF published, milk pumped, baby slinged and fed, walk had, knitting achieved. Good day.” I thought that was fairly productive really. Saturday was the normal round of […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict, Freddie, Sport & Dance, Trips Out Tagged With: girls rugby, nature walk, race for life, thinking about grief, TKD, walking

6 weeks old

March 10, 2012 by

So I should be back to normal by now 😉 However, it would be fair to say that while I am indeed a very contented mother, I’m not following, or indeed indulging in, any methods expounded by certain parenting ‘gurus’. Hmmmm. Ben has eyelashes, real proper ones with darkness to them that you can see. […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Benedict Tagged With: 6 week old baby, subsequent child after infant loss

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