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Unrecognisable to myself

November 22, 2011 by

I don’t know how old I was when I saw the film Philadelphia; I saw it at the cinema, with my friend who had a close family friend dying of AIDS at the time, contracted while working in Africa before anyone knew to be wary. We were teenagers. I don’t think I’ve seen the film […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Family Life, Freddie, Grief, Thinking Tagged With: acceptance after baby loss, glow in the woods, grief, infant loss, life after infant loss, loss

The home ed bits.

November 18, 2011 by

Life, aside from being extremely busy, is very peaceful here, back into the rhythm we all find comfortable and comforting. The girls get their stuff done first thing (currently we’re doing lots of maths, verbal and non verbal reasoning, spelling, grammar games and reading practise) and then, with that done by 11am or so, we’re […]

Filed Under: Arts & Crafts, Family Life, Gymnastics, Home Education, Music, Sport & Dance Tagged With: draw write now, drawing animals with kids, grade 1 violin, grade 3 cello, gymnastics, Home Education, music for kids

Some things change, some things don't.

November 10, 2011 by

I’ve been using the internet for something like 12 years now. I remember the very first time I sat down to try it out. My brother in law had a PC connected to the net and I asked to have a go; I sat down in front of whatever search engine he used then and […]

Filed Under: Merrily Empire Tagged With: internet retail history, online payment solutions, running a small business, small business ownership

Edit: Erase: Airbrush

November 8, 2011 by

People don’t mean to be cruel. They don’t mean to hurt me, or us. What they want is to save us pain. It’s easy to be accidentally tactless of course, because what was like a barrel of boiled oil poured on ready flayed skin to me, is to every one else just ordinary every day […]

Filed Under: Freddie, Grief, Thinking Tagged With: how to help a friend when a baby dies, what not to say when a baby dies

Bells, Bangs, Skulls & Potions.

October 27, 2011 by

Regrouped for our WedEd? 😉 meet this week, which was lovely in itself but made even better for me by Fran being on half term and so along with us. I do miss having her about, even if I am pleased she is doing well at school. The kids started off with a Day of […]

Filed Under: Arts & Crafts, Autumn Crafts, Poems, Wed Ed Group Tagged With: autumn nature art, day of the dead art, home ed science, Home Education, macbeth witches with kids, playing bells with kids, poetry for kids

Various achievements & good things.

October 22, 2011 by

Last week Amelie and Fran went off to audition for dancing parts in our city panto, one of those with proper paid cast members (although not dancers!) and a dame and everything. It seemed like it would be a good experience for them to try out an audition, particularly as Fran, buoyed up by how […]

Filed Under: Family Life, Gymnastics, Home Education, School, Sport & Dance Tagged With: dancing auditions, fossil hunting, gymnastic beam routine, gymnastic low bar routine, gymnastics floor routine, Home Education, maths, panto, reading, school life, trips out

Empty Chairs at Empty Tables

October 15, 2011 by

There can be few images of loss in literature more potent than that of the empty stool shown to Scrooge in the Cratchit house after Tiny Tim has died. There are few images more powerful in a film than that of Dumbo’s mother as she is torn from her child and left without him. It’s […]

Filed Under: Freddie, Grief, Thinking, Uncategorized Tagged With: baby loss, baby loss memorial day, child loss, infant loss awareness day, international infant loss awareness day, losing a baby, miscarriage

More thoughts on school & home ed.

October 13, 2011 by

A while ago I was reading over on Note From Lapland about the Finnish Schooling System. Finland is oft quoted by the home educating community as a paragon of virtue; they start at 6 or 7, learn to read at this age rather than earlier, have a holistic and charming (Chalet School like!) schooling ethos […]

Filed Under: Fran, Home Education, School Tagged With: finnish school system, home educated children going to school, Home Education, how home educated children learn to read, mochabeaniemummy, note from lapland, reasons to home educate, starting reading too early, why home education works

Gifts from the heart, flowers from my past.

October 9, 2011 by

We’ve got a long way to go before having cut flowers in the house are an every day occurrence; I do get the occasional bunch of them from Max and the girls, which I appreciate enormously but it is a long standing joke here (and I suspect in plenty of homes) to immediately say “What […]

Filed Under: Family Life, Home Education, Photos Tagged With: flowers for baby loss, flowers for graves, flowers for happy times, flowers for sad times, flowers in exeter, funeral flowers, having a baby before you are married, little gifts which are romantic, wedding bouquets, wedding flowers

20 Weeks Pregnant

October 5, 2011 by

Closer to 21 weeks now in fact. I’m counting down in a reasonably big way. When I was pregnant with Freddie, it seemed terribly important to enjoy every last minute because I was sure he would be the last. Even with all this misgivings I had, I enjoyed it. This time it is harder to […]

Filed Under: Grief, Pregnancy After Loss Tagged With: 20 weeks pregnant, feeling a first baby kick, pregnancy after baby loss

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