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Christmas to now.

January 6, 2012 by

I seem to have bloggers block, that and a frantic nesting and knitting and ipad-ing habit 🙂 We’ve been busy though, and mostly happy, though I am finding it harder and harder to maintain any sort of sanity in the face of impending birth of baby. Still, with a maximum of 5 weeks to go […]

Filed Under: Crochet, Drawing, Family Life, Photos, Science, Sport & Dance, Thinking Tagged With: crocheted storage baskets, family Christmas, felted crochet pots, fuji Camera, good manga books for kids, kindle for a teenager, manga drawing, pineapple dancewear, presents for older girls, redecorating the bathroom, smurfs, stop go animation kit, vertbaudet clothing

A New Year.

January 2, 2012 by

The last two years I did a New Years Eve post, one full of hope and joy, one full of anger and despair. This year I didn’t think I would take the risk. In fact, looking back at the festive period this year, I think I got through it all by just deciding not to […]

Filed Under: Freddie, Grief, Thinking, Uncategorized Tagged With: coping with new year after losing a child, freddie, grief, infant loss, losing a child

A relationship with Oak

December 20, 2011 by

Of all my happiest memories, the garden of the house my grandparents lived in when I was growing up, is the place I remember with the most peace and joy. Oaklands. I spent weeks there, most often the only grandchild staying, caught up in a private, solitary world of my own imagination. I was the […]

Filed Under: Freddie, Thinking, Writing Tagged With: childhood memories, oak furniture, oaks

That life that was mine.

December 13, 2011 by

Fran and Amelie start the proper run of the pantomime they’ve been rehearsing today; six weeks of Sunday mornings morph into a run of 16 performances. They’ve experienced a shouty director who expects them to behave like pros (despite not actually being paid!) and the shock of finding themselves cut out of a dance because […]

Filed Under: Thinking, Writing Tagged With: building furniture, chair hire in London, hiring furniture

Unrecognisable to myself

November 22, 2011 by

I don’t know how old I was when I saw the film Philadelphia; I saw it at the cinema, with my friend who had a close family friend dying of AIDS at the time, contracted while working in Africa before anyone knew to be wary. We were teenagers. I don’t think I’ve seen the film […]

Filed Under: Being a Parent, Family Life, Freddie, Grief, Thinking Tagged With: acceptance after baby loss, glow in the woods, grief, infant loss, life after infant loss, loss

Edit: Erase: Airbrush

November 8, 2011 by

People don’t mean to be cruel. They don’t mean to hurt me, or us. What they want is to save us pain. It’s easy to be accidentally tactless of course, because what was like a barrel of boiled oil poured on ready flayed skin to me, is to every one else just ordinary every day […]

Filed Under: Freddie, Grief, Thinking Tagged With: how to help a friend when a baby dies, what not to say when a baby dies

Empty Chairs at Empty Tables

October 15, 2011 by

There can be few images of loss in literature more potent than that of the empty stool shown to Scrooge in the Cratchit house after Tiny Tim has died. There are few images more powerful in a film than that of Dumbo’s mother as she is torn from her child and left without him. It’s […]

Filed Under: Freddie, Grief, Thinking, Uncategorized Tagged With: baby loss, baby loss memorial day, child loss, infant loss awareness day, international infant loss awareness day, losing a baby, miscarriage

This week we learned….

September 30, 2011 by

That Maddy is a stop motion animation genius. There are 700 photos in that clip, all taken on my iPhone with no help (and only a Lego built stand for it) and all the timing comes from her singing the song in her head as she did it. I put it into Windows Movie Maker […]

Filed Under: Family Life, Lego, Maddy, Photos, School Tagged With: celtic hama beads, lego animation, starting school, stop go animation, using lego figures for animations with children, windows movie maker

I'd have got away with it too…

September 17, 2011 by

Now we are back in the swing of daily ‘normals’ work, which always leads for a happier household, we’re getting much more done in general. I like it when we swing back into these productive periods of time; even doing sensible if slightly boring stuff first thing in the morning tends to make the day […]

Filed Under: Fimo Models, Maddy, Uncategorized Tagged With: Fimo Model of Fred and Daphne, new Scooby Doo, Scooby Doo, Scooby Doo Craft, Scooby Doo Mystery House Review

The Eve of Change

September 12, 2011 by

It’s not often I delete a half written post, but I just have. I wanted to write something meaningful about the coverage of the 9/11 anniversary this weekend, but honestly I don’t have the stomach for it. Maybe I’d just end up adding to the one thing I find so difficult about our world wide […]

Filed Under: Family Life, Thinking Tagged With: 9/11, children playing to cope with trauma, growing up, motherhood

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