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Duck Pond

July 6, 2010 by

I am ice. That is what I am. That is all there is. The thinnest, clearest, most fragile piece of ice on a pond at the start of a winter that will be long, cold and dark. The spring is so very far away.

There are four little ducks walking on that sheet of ice, spreading their weight automatically and instinctively so that the ice can tip a little, dip a little, but always right itself. The ducklings have cold feet, but they are not wet. They are not freezing. They are not drowning.

Throw up a pebble – a pebble is all it will take – and the ice is going to break. Pebbles have to be slid on the surface, gently and with care. Throw one up too high and when it falls, the ice will break, shatter into a billion tear shaped pieces. And the ducklings will tip into the water.

Heft the pebbles carefully, please. Think before you throw. I have to keep the ducklings out of the water.

Filed Under: Freddie, Thinking, Uncategorized Tagged With: baby loss, child loss, grief, life after loss, losing a child, neonatal death

Comments

  1. Adelaide Dupont says

    July 6, 2010 at 6:40 am

    Such a crystal clear metaphor.

    Will keep away from pebbles, or use them to build a break.

    (like a fire break in some adventure tales, Ransome is the one I have in mind!)

    Sliding them is probably the way to go.

  2. Carol says

    July 6, 2010 at 8:19 am

    Very lovely Merry x

  3. tbird says

    July 6, 2010 at 11:28 am

    hugs. The ice will thicken a little at a time, so gradually you won’t even notice at first.

  4. EF x says

    July 6, 2010 at 1:46 pm

    Hefting a pebble carefully here………. … . ….. ………..spring will come…

  5. Zoe says

    July 6, 2010 at 1:56 pm

    Like I said yesterday – so very good with words x (one question – should we slide ‘peddles’ too ;))

  6. merry says

    July 6, 2010 at 5:47 pm

    Ah. That is the problem with 2am writing in the dark. Thanks – have edited 🙂

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